I think I'm very soon going to have to drop the user list, and the user dropdown on the addlink page, and modify search a bit, and generally make it so people can only find you if they know you're there or know your email.
Or, I suppose, I could /not/ do that. It really is rather a lot of work, just to cater to paranoia, which is what every /other/ socnet site does, and I really do NOT want to be like other sites. Hm. Ponder.